They can't, they won't, they never will...

Don't stop the party!

Weddings are a celebration of being together forever. But, let's be honest, everyone is really there for the party. Life should be a party, and we specialize in making it happen.

Golden Wedding Planners is a full service planning company, and not only do we put together amazing weddings, but we have thrown birthday parties, bachelorette celebrations, engagement bashes and everything in between. Why put yourself through the stress of putting together an amazing Cinco de Mayo bash, when we can do that for you? Need a Mariachi band? We can find that for you, along with an authentic caterer and bartenders to serve up those amazing margaritas. What about your best friend's birthday? Where are you going to find the perfect party bus from a company you trust to take you all out on the town? How about throwing the ultimate New Year's Eve party at your own mansion for the night? 

We will make that and everything else happen for you in 2013 and beyond. While we do specialize in weddings, we believe that life is a celebration. Everyone works so hard, gets so stressed out, so why not have something to look forward to that you didn't have to plan from top to bottom? 

Our promise is to work with you and put together the biggest and best celebrations you, or any of your family or friends has seen. Already married? Let us set up your vow renewal or anniversary party. Treat yourself to an experience that you will never forget.

Those shoes you got for Christmas will one day be out of style. That cute dress you got on your birthday won't be what you want in a few months. BUT, a party with the people that make you happy, is a memory that will last forever. We're here to be happy and have a great time, so call us and let us know how we can keep the party going for you!

Danielle
www.goldenweddingplanners.com
732-236-4065

Team Bride!

You're engaged, you call and tell everyone. You're flooded with well wishes, congratulatory messages and tears of joy from those closest to you. 5 minutes pass, and those all turn into opinions on one thing or another. Thoughts from that bridesmaid who has never had a successful relationship, to your mother who is reliving her wedding day the way it "should've been"....who do you turn to? Sure, you love them and they love you and are happy for you...but, they're also human, and will have plenty to say. 

Who is that one person that will always be on your side? Your planner. Your planner will be 100% team bride from day 1 of the planning process, to the very last dance at your wedding. When you need an honest opinion on the wedding dress you have your eye on, or a shoulder to cry on when none of your bridesmaids are getting their dresses on time, your planner will be there for you.

Everyone that surrounds you with love will want the best for your big day. But, it is always your wedding, and you should have that person you can trust to be Team Bride. Besides being an invaluable source of information, saving you money on their trusted vendors, and keeping everything together, your planner is on your side 100% of the time, no ulterior motives.

At Golden Wedding Planners, we want to take every step with you, from visiting venues to your grand exit after the reception. We'll hold your hand, and help you make the best decisions for your big day. And when you want to vent about everyone else giving their opinion, we'll be there for that too. Even if you have everything handled, our "Day Of" Coordination package is perfect for you, because there will be no one to depend on once that wedding march starts. Let us make sure your vendors show up on time, with what they were contracted to do....let us put together a timeline for you, and help the final show go off without a hitch. Let your guests (this includes your closest relatives) enjoy the wedding day right there with you, while we do all the work.

"A wedding planner is a mother, sister, friend, drill sergeant and psychologist."

We hope you'll pick us to be on your team! Email danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com or call 732-236-4065 to set up your free consultation!

Danielle 

Black Friday-Cyber Monday! Time to Book!

I have never set foot into a retail store on Black Friday, but I completely understand the desire for an amazing deal! This Black Friday-Cyber Monday, Golden Wedding Planners is offering FREE upgrades on all packages. This means, for the price of "Day of Coordination" you will receive a Partial Planning package designed just for you. For the price of a Partial Planning package, you'll receive Full Coordination! All of these packages come with two coordinators on your rehearsal and and wedding day.

All you have to do is email me directly at danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com to set up your free consultation next week at our office in Verona, New Jersey. During your consultation we'll go over every aspect of your dream day and what you would need from us to make it happen. After that time, we'll put together a package for you and a quote within 24 hours. We'll even tell you how much you are saving! As long as I receive your email before the end of the day on Cyber Monday, you will be entitled to this amazing offer!

But hurry! Dates through 2014 are starting to fill up, and this offer won't be around until this time next year. Even if you're just curious and wondering "do I really need a planner?", what better time to just set up a consultation and find out if we're you're perfect match? There's nothing to lose, and we can't wait to meet you!

Danielle
www.goldenweddingplanners.com
732-236-4065
250 Pompton Avenue
Verona, NJ 07044
danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com

Announcing: Estates and Mansions for your Wedding Day!

One of our favorite movies is "Father of the Bride". A beautiful wedding followed by a decked out reception in a stunning home. Many of our brides wish they could do something similar, but aren't sure where to start. Golden Wedding Planners is proud to present to you the ultimate wedding experience.

Imagine your big day taking place in a secluded mansion. Gone are the days where you fall in the love with the venue, but not the food. By working with us, we'll present to you our catering team, who will design your menu exactly as you wish. 

By using one of these properties, you will have access it for as long as you like. Why not spend the week there, and we'll bring in our team for facials, massages, pedicures and more! Each home has between 12-20 bedrooms, so you can even offer "blocked" rooms for those closest to you on the big day.

We also offer packages for the weekend, where you can host your day after brunch right on property. Having a Saturday wedding? Use your "home for the weekend" on Friday for the rehearsal and have that menu catered to your liking.

Completely customizable packages are available for the bride that wants something different. No decoration, music or food restrictions. Valet parking available, swimming pools at many of the properties, and each home is more beautiful than the next.

These properties are only available through Golden Wedding Planners. Let us help plan your special day, and give your guests something they'll be talking about for years!

Danielle 
www.goldenweddingplanners.com
732-236-4065
danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com

Spotted! Season Premiere of Style's "The Glam Fairy"

Greetings fellow reality television watchers! Golden Wedding Planners was recently spotted on The Style Network's, "The Glam Fairy" with stars Alexa and Danny. During filming, the two were being shown a potential wedding venue and being asked a lot of questions! If you didn't get to see the episode, it's available "on demand" and of course, in re-runs.

When we met with Alexa and Danny, they were unsure of a lot of details, from catering to the guest count. This is perfectly normal! Not all brides have been planning their wedding since they were a little girl, so don't fret if you haven't either.

We love to meet with couples, and get a general idea about who they are, and what makes them destined to be together. Between amazing halls throughout the entire state of New Jersey, to the sandiest of beaches down the shore, or even a barn that you've had your sights on since the ring went on your finger, we will take you anywhere and everywhere. It's very important to see venues and get a feel for what your day will be like before you decide anything else. 

Not sure where to start? Start here: www.goldenweddingplanners.com. Check out our website and reach out to us for a free consultation via email: danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com or call us directly at 732-236-4065. We promise to help you find the perfect location to say "I Do!"

Don't forget that we also specialize in destination weddings. If you want to be married on a cliff in Spain or in the snow of the Alps, let us help you there. Looking for that "Father of the Bride" wedding in a beautiful home? We have some amazing properties to show you as well.

Best of luck to Alexa and Danny, and to all engaged couples! We can't wait to get planning!

Rehearsal Dinners

Twas the night before your wedding, and all through the hall, bride and groom were practicing, for their big day at the ball...

Not a perfect rhyme, but you get the picture.

The day or two before your big day, often times there is a rehearsal held. It's typically at the location of the ceremony so that everyone can learn what's in store for the next day. Thankfully, with a planner, these people will have someone there to remind them where to stand when they forget.

But after the rehearsal, it's customary to go to dinner together as a group. This dinner is often left to the last minute to be planned, but really should be taken care of at least 2-3 months in advance. Frequently a rehearsal dinner will fall on a Friday or Saturday night, when restaurants are already busy with guests, including other parties for birthdays and such. Here are some things to remember:

Your rehearsal dinner space will give guests the opportunity to give you those final "best of luck" wishes before you walk down the aisle. Make sure that where ever you go, there is ample food and, of course, wine, champagne and your beverage of choice. While no one will be getting plastered (and if they do, shame on them) it's always a good idea to offer a drink choice so that guests can relax and do a toast if they so please.

Rehearsal dinner reservations should be locked in and rock solid at a strong establishment. Tell your planner what you're looking for and see what they suggest. This is a very important dinner, and if you go through a rehearsal with no reservations, no place to go, or a place to go that lost those reservations, the stress of your wedding day will begin the night before. No need to go crazy with decorations, a photographer/videographer or any of that, just make sure your friends and family know where they're going. This is the night to have everyone relax and enjoy themselves...that includes the bride and groom.

 

Who needs flowers?

More and more couples are coming to us with an aversion to flowers. They want to use light, branches, and anything else to keep an organic feel going throughout the big day. Some, are even allergic to flowers and while they would like to use some big blooms, they don't want to break out in hives either.

There are so many alternatives to using the tall centerpieces with overflowing roses. Depending on the theme of your wedding, as well as the location, you can use just about anything.

For instance, pictured here is a rustic lantern that our bride wanted to use for her late November wedding last year. She was more interested in keeping the warm fall and holiday feeling, and felt that flowers wouldn't give her guests what she was looking for. Plus, she was able to design the centerpiece herself and then keep all of the lanterns which she now uses in her garden at her home. I'm personally a big fan of buying items that you'll be able to use again as husband and wife.

If you're having an outdoor reception, take a look around at what Mother Nature is offering you. Perhaps there are large oak trees nearby, and you want to work the branches into the centerpieces. If you're at a vineyard, consider working grapes into anything from the altar to the bouquets. Fruits and vegetables provide a nice twist on the everyday centerpiece and will give your guests something to talk about. Any florist will be able to pull some beautiful green moss to add to a garden like wedding. 


Flowers are always a good choice, and while there are many to select from, they aren't for everyone. So think outside the box, because it's your day and you can have anything you want!

Read, then sign. In that order.

Once you sign a contract, you are bound by it. For this reason, you should read everything before you sign it. If you need time to review it, ask to take it home, and be sure to ask questions when you need clarification.

Recently, one of our brides got burned by a contract that she signed. She was blind-sided when she was asked to pay a final amount that was much higher than what she remembered. Unfortunately, the cost had been previously explained before the contract was signed, and even before a deposit was put down. The obvious conclusion is that she did not read the contract. 

It's hard to argue with black and white, especially when one of the last pieces of black, is your signature. You will not be able to go to court and state that you didn't read the contract. The judge will simply assume that you didn't care, and you will be held accountable for the terms in the contract. All that ever matters in negotiations, especially those involving money, are the words on the paper. We beg that every couple reads every last word on every last piece of paper that they sign.

When we work with couples, we have a copy of every single contract that has been signed. This is done to protect the couple as well as the vendor. We'll remind couples when payments are due, deadlines in contracts, and anything else that we think they need to know. However, we make no claim to read the contract to the couple, and assume that they have taken the time to read the document before they sign it.

Bottom line: if you signed it, you agreed to it. No other argument is even valid after that point. 

How to serve your drinks...like never before

You have your signature drinks, and then you have how you choose to serve them up. Our last blog post was about swizzle sticks, and helping your guests enjoy their drinks and your special day. Now we present to you ways to really wow your guests.

Anyone can put out a bottle of wine, a keg of beer, or a punch bowl. But when is the last time that you went to a party and poured a watermelon cocktail out of a keg...made of watermelon? 
Whether you're having a backyard engagement party, or a tented event, this laid back way to have some fun cocktails will surely keep your guests talking. Perfect for anytime in the spring or summer, this takes a little bit of DIY effort and a lot of love, and then everyone can sit back and enjoy. Similar to carving out a pumpkin, just take the melon out, run it through a food processor in batches, and replace it into the watermelon. What you choose to add into it is up to you! Anything from vodka, to seltzer, to rum, there is no right or wrong. Just make sure you have enough to go around.

Watermelon isn't the only holder of fun drinks. If you're hosting a fall event, consider the great pumpkin as a centerpiece. Simply cut open the top of the pumpkin and take everything out from the inside. Place a glass or plastic bowl inside and fill it with anything you like. You could choose to fill it with ice and add some bottled drinks, or simply make a fun fall punch in the bowl. 

Looking for a way to let everyone have their own personal drinks? Use strawberries as shot glasses as seen above. Since strawberries would make a mess, consider making the inside a jello shot so people can just pop them in their mouths and enjoy. What a great way to get the party started!

Creativity is key here, so just let your imagination run wild and have a good time! Don't forget to send us pictures of what you come up with and let us know what your guests have to say!

Swizzle me This

One thing that makes a wedding ceremony and reception perfect, is the seamless transition from one to the other, and the final touches that bring the theme to life in the smallest of details. 

Last night, I saw an episode of Four Weddings on TLC, and the "event planner" had a St. Patty's Day themed wedding...which ended in mechanical bull riding. This would've been cute if she was in Texas, if the theme was "country", or if it had something special to do with the couple and everyone knew about it. As much as it's fun, it doesn't make sense, and when things don't make sense at a wedding, your guests, and you, will notice.

Now, while I don't believe in hitting guests over the head with your theme, or that you even need one, it's important to look at the little things. Making your wedding original is getting more and more difficult with couples willing to basically hire Cirque de Soleil performers during their reception, but you don't have to go crazy or break the bank for the little things.

We've all seen the cocktail napkins with the bride and groom's name, followed by their wedding date. Everyone has a signature drink. And no one labels tables by numbers anymore, but by something meaningful to the couple. But what about those drinks that you bring back to your table long after you care what it's called? When it's the time of night where your guests order vodka tonics, and sit down because they need a break from dancing, why not surprise them?

With personalized swizzle sticks!

You can get really creative and there are hundreds of companies that can mass produce swizzle sticks that you want. Whether you want your newly monogrammed initials, your wedding date, or a pink flamingo with your reception location (it had better be Florida if you do that), the sky is the limit. This is just a little touch to really bring your wedding up that notch. If you're having a signature drink, you don't have to offer the swizzle sticks at that time. Keep them behind the bar and instruct your hall to not bring them out until after people have started dancing. 

I can hear the conversations at the bar now, "Oh my! Look how cute this is!", "What does this say?", "Look, they put their wedding date on the stick!"

 Can you hear it too?

If you don't want to personalize them with any wedding details, just make them about your theme. If you're doing a St. Patrick's Day wedding, why not a shamrock or pot of gold swizzle? Getting married around the Fourth of July? They make firework swizzle sticks too. A really cool picture is of course a bunch of glasses clinking together with your personalized swizzle sticks.

We always make a big deal about how to make your wedding the absolute best, but we always emphasize that a wedding is about two people and the love they have for each other. Putting this little touch into your ceremony will share with your guests another part of you. Best of all, it's inexpensive and a total surprise.

Did you use swizzle sticks at your last party? Would you like to see them at a wedding? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below!

 

Girl's Night Out!!

Your big day is coming up and soon you'll have that other ring on your finger and be a Mrs.! Whatever your plans are after that, whether it means starting a family, moving to a new location, or anything else that life brings you way, time with "your girls" won't be as easy as it used to be. Your Bachelorette Party is the perfect excuse for a girl day with all of your besties and we want to give you some fun ideas to try!

We've heard it all from weekends at the Hamptons, a trip to Vegas, spadays in Atlantic City, the works! But not everyone can afford to spend an entire weekend, especially an extended one, jetsetting around the globe to celebrate the bond that is girlfriends. Keep in mind that your bridal party is already spending money for their dresses, shoes and maybe even hair and make-up. They're also giving you their time at your shower, rehearsal, wedding and anytime you have to talk to them about the latest guest list drama. While you are the guest of honor, this party is about all of you and your friendships and should be celebrated as such!

But the bride shouldn't have to plan this party too, so listen up Maid of Honors and best friends! It's time to plan the Bachelorette Party for the bride and all of you! Keep in mind what she loves and incorporate as much as you can.  Make it fun and make it personal, but most importantly, surprise the bride with how much you care about her! Here are some ideas from us, and feel free to comment on your own:

1. Start off by making tickets for the party, and only those who have the tickets can attend. You can make them fun like the pink and leopard print above, or use the bride's colors. Send these tickets out anyway you like, via email, or even snail mail. Make sure that everyone knows to bring their tickets to the party so they can attend! Think about adding something to the back for each person to bring like apple martini mix or an embarassing hat that the bride has to wear all night.

2. Bring the party to the house by inviting a spray tan artist to come by and prepare everyone for the big day. Custom spray tans are really popular right now, and it's super easy to hire an artist to come to your house. Take before and after pictures to show that there's no need to hurt your skin in the sun to look amazing!

3. Make-overs for grown ups! Remember all of those slumber parties with your girlfriends back in fourth grade? Playing with your mom's make-up and giving each other pedicures? Well now you can do the same thing! Many companies offer in-home spa treatments from massages to facials to manicures, and what better way to celebrate being a girl than that? This is also a great idea for the week of the wedding, if not the night before if you're all staying at one location. Of course, don't forget to bring in those hair and make-up artists to help complete your look!

4. Still want to head out for a night on the town? Have your cocktail hour at home and hire a bartender to mix up some drinks for everyone before heading out. Play whatever music you want because it's your party and come up with a signature cocktail named after the bride. Then, when you're all ready, have a limo outside to whisk you away to the hottest new restaurant or a fun club to dance the night away.  From a pink stretch hummer to a vintage limo, there are so many options available for safe transportation.

Whether it's at home or not, the party should be fun and different. We help plan all kinds of events including ones like these, so email us at danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com to help book your Girl's Night Out!

Weddings on Stage

"Masquerade!
Grinning yellows,
spinning reds...."

Trends come and go, but the ones that stick around are worth a second thought. Wedding ceremonies produced in a theatre (that's "re" not "er") create an amazing dynamic and will give you that "oooh, that's different" feeling. Whether you have a large or small stage to play with, if you're planning to wed on one, take a trip to Broadway or your local theatre to observe how creative you can really be.

First assess your theme. Any theme works for a stage, hence why there are so many shows performed. From Phantom of the Opera (pictured above) to Rent to Oklahoma, theatre is something that speaks to everyone. But you wouldn't use the same lighting for Les Mis that you would for Annie Get Your Gun. Lighting is the first place to start because it sets the mood for the entire ceremony. Is your wedding in the winter and are you using dark colors? Then consider some well placed shadows and dark curtains. If you're having your big day in the spring, spotlights of yellows, greens and light blues would make the mood light and airy.

How do you fill a stage though? If you're having a small bridal party, or none at all, you'll have a lot of dead space to work with. Consider having some small sets built, whether it be a faux chapel, a pretend house, or a cardboard wedding cake. Anything that works with your theme and takes up space works as long as you're creative. Don't forget to use the curtains to make an overwhelmingly large space, smaller and more intimate. Not looking for a grand stage, but still want a theatre? Utilize a black box space where you're still the center of attention, but fairly level with your audience. Musicals like Godspell and The Fantasticks took place in a blackbox theatre, so google pictures of those for inspiration.

If you choose to go the theatre route, make sure you're working with some one at the theatre that knows how to move the curtains and how to set up the stage. You will need to speak with someone that is their lighting technician as well as a sound technician.  A stage performance isn't any good when the audience can't hear! Keep this in mind for music as well, whether you're using piped in music, soloists, a live band, or anything in between, you'll need microphones to carry through the space. Everyone that speaks will need to have a microphone as well, so don't forget about your readers, the officiants, and of course, you and your partner! Body mics are one way to go, but standing and hand held will be easier to use and switch with people on the day of.

If you are having your wedding in a theatre, then make sure that your guests know. Too often there are fashion faux paus at some of the best theatres on Broadway. Do not allow your guests to show up in jeans just because they think that's acceptable at a theatre (it's not). Make it clear what the dress code is on the invitation so that there is no confusion. Writing "dress for the theatre" will be open to interpretation, so make it crystal clear what you are expecting. Guests will feel less out of place if they are all dressed appropriately. How would you feel if you showed up to a black tie in shorts and a t-shirt because you didn't know? Be thoughtful and keep your guests in mind.

Of course, if you're theme is Oklahoma, and you're wearing cowboy boots on stage, then encourage your guests to do the same. The theme doesn't just stop with your wedding, your guests should feel like a part of the show as well.

Lastly, go over the smallest details with a fine tooth comb. Just because you see a grand piano on stage at your site visit, doesn't mean you're allowed to use it for your wedding. Ask about everything! Never assume when it comes to the theatre. As the wife of a professional musician, I can assure you that my husband always has to ask if he has to provide his own piano when he works.

Have fun! Get your guests involved. A "staged" wedding takes more preparation than many others, so give yourself some time to research and plan out the details. It takes over a year to mount a Broadway show from audition to curtain up for the first time. Don't rush, and have a good time with all of the planning.

"Masquerade!
Take your fill -
let the spectacle
astound you!"
-Phantom of the Opera-

Heaven...I'm in Heaven...

"...and my heart beats so that I can hardly speak.."
-Frank Sinatra-

One of the best singers of all time may have been singing about dancing cheek to cheek, but what's more important to us? How good those cheeks look!!

On your wedding day, you of course, want everything to be perfect. This obviously includes with how you look because, let's face it, you will be in 90% of the photos that are taken. It's no surprise, that cosmetic companies are constantly looking for new ways to make the face look amazing, and once again, MAC is the clear winner.

It's no secret that we at Golden Wedding Planners are huge MAC fans. The colors are beautiful, the lasting power is amazing and they don't test on animals...not to mention they have a killer recyling program! Anytime they come out with something new, which is pretty much every other month, we're holding our breath to see the amazing new colors.

Well exhale ladies! This week, MAC unveils their "Heavenly Creature" collection. Whether you're planning a summer, fall or winter wedding, there is something in this collection for every bride. That said, we think it's a bit too heavy for spring, but with MAC anything is possible. However, if you're gearing up for that big day this summer, fall or winter, we suggest taking a trip to your nearest MAC counter to pick up a make-up artist for the big day, and these amazing new colors.

From "Pleasureseeker" to "Cusp of Dawn", peach to pink tones are available for every skin color. Top your lips off with a Celestial Kiss or be Strictly Plutonic and you'll shin for hours! What MAC is probably most famous for is their eyeshadows. This new collection from "Magnetic Attraction" to "Bright Moon", will leave you feeling "Invincible". There are so many new colors available that you won't feel restricted to just being able to wear one! Of course you can finish off your face and be the "Center of the Universe" with a dewy glow using their skinfinish pigments.

Ladies, don't forget that you need to look fabulous for that Bachelorette party! Golden Wedding Planners can help you plan the night of her dreams, starting with a MAC party with certified artists using their brand new colors. We'll bring in wardrobe, spray tans, and even hook you all up with amazing limo rides to the hottest clubs and restaurants available. It's truly a girl's night out, so get in touch today to book with us!

From bachelorette party to wedding day, MAC is always finding new ways to bring out your inner beauty....contact us today to find out more!

" ...and I seem to find that happiness I seek,
when we're out together
swinging cheek to cheek..."

Hot, hot, HOT!!

To honor today, the first day of summer, Mother Nature has brought a heat wave to New Jersey! Today topped out at 100 degrees and unless you were in a pool, being outside was not easy!

It made me think about all of those summer weddings I've planned and been to. I'm sure you know the ones I'm talking about: hot, humid and outdoors! Even if it's just the ceremony, sometimes those 20 minutes can be unbearable unless you find a way to keep your guests cool!

First things first, make sure guests are aware of what they're going to. If it's a black tie affair but no one knows the ceremony is outdoors, people might dress very differently. Give guests a head's up in the invitations that part of your big day will be outside. The more they can prepare, the happier they'll be.

Find interesting ways to keep them cool. Whether that means tenting areas and bringing in air conditioning units, providing fans or have cool drinks offered, it's all about keeping your guests happy. You don't want to hear people complaining about how hot it is when you're up there saying your vows. Talk about getting burned!

Think about ordering some fans with your names on them so guests can keep themselves cool while watching the ceremony. Play up your colors and have them alternate! Consider having a small cocktail offering before your ceremony complete with icy appetizers. From shrimp cocktail to shots of gazpacho, this is a great opportunity to show your creative side. I would also recommend offering drinks, but non-alcoholic. Drinking before a ceremony can be a recipe for disaster. Consider fun twists on drinks like blueberry lemonade, or a fruit punch complete with fresh fruit. 

If it's more then just your ceremony that's outside in the heat, analyze your day carefully. This goes for what you're wearing as well. No puffy wedding gown is going to be comfortable in the heat, and your bridesmaids would probably appreciate a short flirty dress instead of a gown. If it's a casual wedding you're planning, consider BBQ food and food trucks coming in for some added fun. End your evening with some super cold desserts, including ice cream. Pick some fun flavors but don't let people make their own sundaes because too often, they'll end up wearing them. Flavors like mint and mango are cool in the mouth and will be pleasing to your guests. 

Make sure there is plenty of shade offered, and consider adding fun touches like hats, sunblock and flip flops for your guests to use. Have an usher pass out ice cold hand towels throughout the time outside to help keep everyone chill. You want your guests to remember how beautiful your wedding was, not how much they were sweating through it.

So how would you keep your guests cool? Do you like our ideas? Please share with us some of yours! 

Happy Summer!

Cha-CHING!

You hear the stories: $250 centerpieces, $175 a head, $350 bridesmaid dresses.....and all you hear is cha-ching over and over in your head. Isn't a wedding about two people who love each other plus flowers, unicorns and rainbows?

Well, yes...but unicorns are expensive.

So how do you cut down on your budget? Well, a good planner is the first step to figuring our that mess of numbers. We also suggest that couples reach out to planners the day they want to start planning. Planners know the best venues and the best vendors and can help you figure out your favorites that can work with your budget!  The first step we take at Golden Wedding Planners is to figure out what you want to spend in each category and then we bring to you the vendors that can bring that to life.

So if you want big tall centerpieces with poofy, dreamy flowers..and you have a general romantic feel throughout the wedding...well, we'll contact our florists with your theme and budget and work from there. No need for you to do the research and hit up google just to be disappointed!

The most expensive wedding ever was Sheik Rashid Bin Saeed Al Maktoum's son to Princess Salama in Dubai. It was $44 Million.

There are ways to give yourself the dream wedding at the dream pricetag. But the first step is to hire a professional who does it everyday. Call us at Golden Wedding Planners and tell us everything about what you want and what you want to pay. We'll make it happen and show you how affordable unicorns really are.

Very Superstitious....

"...writing's on the wall...
When you believe the things that you don't understand then you suffer,
Superstition ain't the way"
-Stevie Wonder-

Well, it might not be the way, but I have yet to cross a bride that doesn't have some sort of superstitious bone in her body, at least for her wedding that is. Find me a bride that will walk under a ladder or will shrug her shoulders at a mirror she just broke. It won't happen, I'll just tell you this right now.

But where does all of this come from? Rain on your wedding day is a good omen! Many brides think this is just a saying that developed because what else could you say to a bride about her outdoor ceremony that is now flooded? Well actually, it's Hindu tradition that dictates that rain on your wedding day indicates good fortune.

But how superstitious are you? We polled our brides. and surprisingly many of them thought they didn't care about superstition. However, we asked them about some more common things that might happen on their wedding day and they had much to talk about....for instance:

According to English Fokelore, Saturday is the unluckiest day to wed. Yet, for us (and I'm sure many wedding planners) it's the most popular day to wed.

Is your groom carrying your across the threshold? Of course he is, don't lie! Well, that's a superstition that means that your new husband is protecting you from the evil and bad luck below. For all of my Greek brides, I make sure they have a sugar cube tucked into their glove to ensure a "sweet" union. Of course, none of my Italian brides (nor I, being half-Italian on my mother's side) would dare to wear pearls because that just promises a marriage full of tears. Looking for something to throw? Break of the peas if you're Czech, because instead of rice, that's what they throw and it promises good luck for the newleywed couple!

So many superstitions, so little time. For every couple there is something different. Depending on your background, you may have a list a mile long of things to do and to NOT do surrounding your wedding day. But the bottom line is, if you're prepared with all of your ducks in a row, and just can't wait to see your soulmate that day, then luck has nothing to do with it.

Well...maybe a little...Because you must believe that luck, if not fate, brought you together in the first place.

Happily ever after. Glass half full. Rabbit foot around your garter.

How do you ensure good luck on your wedding day? Share with us at danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com or post in the comments below!

You Might be Glowing on your Wedding Day but...

...these can compete with you.

Welcome to the wonderful world of glowstones. These amazing tiny stones need only 10 minutes of exposure to light and will illuminate any walkway for up to 12 hours!

Now, we firmly believe that an invitation sets the tone and is one of the most important items to choose for an event. An invitation gives guests a free preview of amazing things to come. Why not heighten their anticipation with a lit-up entrance void of candles and Christmas lights? Guests will wonder how you made this entrance so beautiful and will absolutely be asking you how they can duplicate it. It's your choice if you want to keep it a secret!

These stones are non-toxic and the possibilities are endless. Whether it's a wedding or any other party, you can use these in various ways. Outside by water? Why not line the water, a pool, lake or anything with these stones? Instead of a candlelite walk-way, use these to line the outside of the aisles. Of course, you can simply sprinkle them all down the walkway as shown in the picture above. They are available in a variety of colors, but to keep the cheese factor down, just use one.

Find a way to incorporate these into your favors, or perhaps have a signature drink that lights up. If you're stuck on a theme, these rocks hand you the "starry night" or "bright lights" theme. Who needs flames when you have rocks?

Have you seen these at a wedding you've been to? Perhaps you discovered them already and have pictures to share! Make sure to send them to us at danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com so we can feature you in a future blog and send you a gift!

Glow in the dark...not just for kids anymore!

Danielle's Pick of the Week: Essence Wedding Gowns

Here at Golden Wedding Planners, we believe that your dress and your venue should be the first two things you select for your wedding day. Everything else will simply fall into place. But committing to a wedding gown, a dress that will be in 90% of the pictures, seen all day and worn only once, can be a little scary. When you're buying the gown you probably won't be walking down the aisle for another year afterwards...so how do you pick something that you know you'll love later? Pick something amazing. Simple right?

Introducing Essence of Australia. One of our favorite dress shops in New Jersey, I Do! I Do! in Morristown, will be bringing this amazing line to their stores this June. Incidentally, they are our "vendor of the month" so make sure to check that out at www.goldenweddingplanners.com and tell them we sent you!

Essence offers a wide variety of gowns, one more different than the next. In fact, the gown pictured above comes with a detachable lace overlay, which transforms this dress into something completely different. This is perfect for the bride who wants to walk down the aisle in one gown, and into the reception in something different. 

Their website is located here: http://www.essensedesigns.com/index.html and when you visit you'll be able to find a store near you that carries their dresses, as well as a list of trunk shows. While Essence isn't new, having been around for the past 14 years, we want to make sure that as many brides know about this line as possible. Consider it a little industry hint to you from us! 

Right now there are 7 stores in New Jersey that carry this line, but no matter what state you're in, there's a store locator on their website: http://www.essensedesigns.com/storelocator.php

Buying an Essence gown? Already wear one down the aisle? Let us know and send pictures to danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com for a chance to win a prize and be featured in an upcoming blog!

Pick of the Week: The Maldives for your Honeymoon!

It's your honeymoon and you can go anywhere in the world! This is probably the only time where you have excused time from work up to two weeks back to back, and can do whatever you want. No one will blame you for not answering your cell and not bringing your tablet along to answer emails. So what are you going to do with this time?

Planning a wedding is an exhausting process. It's a full time job, and if you didn't have a planner, well...I'm sure you're about ready to relax! But where would be most relaxing? Sure many think that they haven't had a vacation unless they come back weary from all the explorations they did, but what if you just want to do nothing. What if you want to sit in paradise, far away from everything and just do...nothing? Why not make it special and do it on an island that won't be here forever?

Where is The Maldives? In the Indian Ocean about 250 miles southwest of India, this island chain sits waiting for your arrival. Of course you'll be pretty much level with the sea, which is why I would insist that you visit this paradise for your honeymoon instead of your 25th anniversary. Due to the low-lying nature of these islands, the sand is the softest sand you will ever feel and the isolation and privacy will be the perfect remedy to the hectic-ness that is wedding planning. 

So where to stay when you're there? Allow us to recommend Taj Exotica! Enjoy your own private villa complete with a wooden ladder to bring you down to the water. Each villa is palm thatched, complete with private spa rooms and outdoor showers. Whether your style is the Presidential Suite, a Lagoon Suite, or a Beach Villa, there is something there for every couple. 

If you're a foodie, you'll enjoy their amazing cuisine at Taj as you dine under a starry sky with a fine wine and your choice of cigars. No honeymoon is complete without a trip to the spa to fully relax together! Yoga, meditation and other therapeutic experiences await you and your spouse at this luxurious location.

Still in the first stages of planning your wedding? Well, if you were considering a destination wedding, Taj might just be the place for you to say "I do"! The possibilities are endless, and The Maldives will leave your guests in awe and talking about your wedding at every other wedding they attend.

Please visit this website: http://www.tajhotels.com/Luxury/Exotica-Resort-And-Spa/Taj-Exotica-Resort-And-Spa-Maldives/Overview.html to see everything this hotel has to offer. Let them know that Golden Wedding Planners sent you.

Have you ever been to The Maldives? Have pictures and experiences to share? Please let us know at danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com and you could be featured in our next blog!

A Wedding at The Oyster Point, 4-13-2012

Congratulations to Danielle and Jared! This gorgeous couple got married at the beautiful Oyster Point Hotel in Red Bank, New Jersey and we were so happy to plan their special day! From the flowers, to the dress, everything was picture perfect and we wanted to share with all of you, some images from their day! If you like what you see, we would love to talk to you about planning your next big event! Just contact us at www.goldenweddingplanners.com and don't forget to check out our team members that all made this day as amazing as it was!

Venue: Oyster Point Hotel, www.theoysterpointhotel.com
Flowers: Boxwoods, www.boxwoodsnj.com
DJ: The Pros, www.thepros.com
Minister: Mitch The Minister, www.mitchtheminister.com
Photographer: Jason Rhee, www.jasonrhee.com
Hair and Make-Up: Hair and Company, www.hairandcompanyredbank.com
Cake: Carlo's, www.carlosbakery.com
Uplighting: Eggsotic Events, www.eggsoticevents.com
Linens: Cloth Connection, www.clothconnection.com 
Full Coordination Planning: Golden Wedding Planners, www.goldenweddingplanners.com

The day started at 8am when the entire bridal party, plus a few other ladies prepared at the salon, getting their hair and make-up done. They enjoyed some light breakfast and were so excited to get the party started! Golden Wedding Planners was at The Oyster Point Hotel meeting with vendors and putting everything together. The cake arrived, then the flowers, and soon everyone else followed! For even more pictures, don't forget to check out: www.goldenweddingplanners.com.

Danielle's Pick of the Week! Long Tables!

Golden Wedding Planners is starting a new feature called "Danielle's Pick of the Week"! This will be a hot new trend that we love and want to share with our readers. To kick off this new feature, we introduce the mixing of long and round tables.


We recently had a venue visit with one of our September couples, and during the conversation the idea of adding long tables came up. At first, the idea might seem a little scary, especially to our more traditional couples, but we are officially married to the idea!

Adding long tables to your reception will give the room a different look and add some dimension. It will also create a family-like atmosphere for all of your guests since these long tables can seat between 20-40 people. If space is an issue, and your guest list is a little too high for the room, adding long tables can help the room stay big and not overcrowded. 

There's also a major opportunity to mix up whatever it is you're putting on your tables. From flowers to candles, a long table will require something a little different than your round tables. You can even mix up the linens and add a runner on top of the table cloth. 

Long tables aren't necessarily just for the casual bride either. They can be just as decked out and dressed up as their round and oval counterparts. 

So go ahead and entertain the idea of entertaining your guests the long way! It's something a little different, and they'll be sure to remember it, and maybe even steal the brilliant idea. That's why long tables are Danielle's Pick of the Week!

A New Jersey Legend Returns in Summer 2012

The Ryland Inn was a landmark in New Jersey both as an amazing restaurant and a beautiful place to hold an event, especially a wedding. From the gorgeous scenary, to the incredible food, getting an invite to a wedding at The Ryland was something to be very excited about.

In 1991 Craig Shelton made news as the head chef at The Ryland, and suddenly, everyone was going there to dine. The restaurant took home the coveted James Beard Mid-Atlantic Region top prize and continued to please the patrons. Tragedy struck when a water main pipe burst in 2007 and shut down The Ryland. Now, almost everyone you talk to in New Jersey is grinning from ear to ear asking "Did you know The Ryland is re-opening?".

Re-opening it indeed is, this summer of 2012 with a complete makeover. Landmark Hospitality, which owns other beautiful properties such as Liberty House in Liberty State Park and Stone House in Warren. Owners Frank and Jeanne Cretella are highly regarded within the industry, and with over 20 years of experience and success, it is easy to see why. The make-over will include transforming the barns into ceremony spaces and conference rooms, and adding luxury spaces for both the bride and her party, as well as the groom and all of his groomsmen. Between the spas, the dressing rooms and the media room complete with billiards, couples can expect to have the time of their lives simply preparing for the wedding!

For the couple that places food as a high priority, The Ryland is a strong contender for a wedding venue. The dining experience also includes an extensive wine list, which is a must for any big celebration being held there. The executive chef who has been hired, is none other than Anthony Bucco who made headlines as the chef at Warren's Uproot and is currently working as a chef at Hamilton Farm Golf Club. Those who were lucky enough to dine at The Ryland before it closed will be happy to hear that the food will be staying the same as Bucco plans to build on the classic French service and style as in the past. The restaurant boasts a farm on the property, which only adds to the freshness of the food that is served there.

Of course, those that remember The Ryland, might also remember the price-tag that came with the experience. There doesn't seem to be any word on what the numbers on the menu will look like, but we're expecting that this venue will be the location for those with a larger budget. However, if you're looking to really make a splash, and marry at a venue that no one has seen in years (because it's been closed) then The Ryland is your best option. If you're looking for something different, and food is one of the top priorities, then consider this venue for your big day.

Also, if location and food are on the top of your list, a good planner will be able to work with the rest of your budget on items such as music, flowers, and photography. If you see the venue and your heart sings, don't let the price tag scare you away. There is always a way to make your dream location become the place you say "I do."

We cannot wait to start planning weddings at The Ryland, and will be there when they open their doors for dinner. Best of luck to The Ryland, Landmark, Bucco and all involved. We hope to see you soon!

Angie and Brad. Finally.

Congratulations to Brad and Angie...and unless you live under a rock, you know we're talking about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie who are officially engaged. While they've already had the experience of being husband and wife as well as parents, we always love to see when a couple makes it official. With that said, not that we would ever be lucky enough to plan this one, we're going to tell you what ideas we have for the gorgeous pair.


First and foremost is the dress. The dress is the centerpiece of the wedding, and once that and the venue are chosen, everything else will fall into place. Having no idea where they might get married (though their own backyard is suspected for this July 4th), we selected this gorgeous, yet understated Pnina Tornai gown from her 2012 collection. Given how much this couple has already been together and all they have been through, we just can't picture Ms. Jolie in something big and poofy. This gown would be perfect for her gorgeous figure, and we trust she'd have a smile on her face unlike the model in the picture. The back is even better and would accentuate a feature she loves to....feature. 


Speaking of her face, we would love to see a soft upswept hairstyle perhaps with some crystal throughout. She's the queen of "I just woke up looking this amazing", and natural make-up, perhaps with a strong defined liquid eyeliner would work well with this gown. 

Brad has been on so many red carpets and looks amazing every time. But we can't help but mention that he looks best in basic black. Think Ocean's 11...12...and 13 premieres. While he looks good every way, we're hoping he'll opt for the clean shaven look with a well maintained hair-do to rock out this tuxedo we've selected for him. We're not sure if he'd want to add any color to this, but we love the classic look for him plus a tie, we're thinking long. Between the gown and the tuxedo, old Hollywood glam is the way we would go for these two. Oh, and no sunglasses Brad.

As much as we hate media speculation, if their lavish affair will be taking place at their French estate complete with a chapel on property, that gives us some amazing ideas for the flowers and theme. We'd love to see them keep the rustic feel complete with using branches and maybe as low-key as candles in mason jars. We could even see the bride walking down the aisle with a beautiful bouquet of cascading orchids seen pictured here.  Any lady lucky enough to be in her bridal party could carry a simple bouquet in similar colors but bunched the way this next bouquet is. 


Of course the theme needs to flow from the venue to the dress to the flowers and beyond. We see nothing but candles, creating that rustic romantic atmosphere these two have already created at their home in France. 




While your typical L.A. wedding is full of bling and crystal, we think these two shine on their own. There's no need for huge centerpieces with diamonds, or sweeping chandeliers dripping in sparkles. Though we wouldn't mind if Angelina were to pick a dress with a little sparkle, that she added it to a few touches throughout her reception. Less is more though with this reception space, and we'd love to see the candlelight reflecting off the tiniest bit of sparkle. We'd love to see her wedding party dressed in simple cream or champagne colors, to keep the mellow feel that this couple often exudes. All of this would add to the warmth of the ceremony and reception, making guests feel welcome and in the presence of true love.

Draping the tables in lace is what we would love to see. Along with some amazing chairs sans covers. The centerpieces should incorporate wood and soft colors, and we can't forget to surround them with candles. The possibilities for candles and candleholders are endless, but stringing some pearls around them would really complete the look. It isn't necessary to just have one centerpiece either, not when you can add several different types per table. We love varying the heights to give the room dimension, and no doubt this room will be able to carry it.


Those are just a few of our thoughts about how we would start planning the big day for Brad and Angelina. We don't want to post too much more and give away our ideas for free...plus we're going to go wait by the phone for them to call and hire us.


That's how we see one of our favorite couples. Congratulations to the future Mr. and Mrs. We hope to hear from you soon!

The Wedding Walk Continues (Part 2)

For your dream dress, the dress so perfect you couldn't even imagine it, look no further than the place called "Mustillo's". Pictured to the left, this beautiful bridal shop offers not just wedding gowns, but all of the accessories and everything that your bridesmaids need as well. This family owned shop has some of the most creative dresses I've ever seen and all at reasonable prices. I'm a big fan of small dress shops outside of the corporate world, and this shop moved quickly to the top of my list. I'm so happy I went there during The Wedding Walk in Red Bank, NJ. For a quick walk around their site visit them here: http://www.mustillos.com/

The walk continued for me as I entered an amazing salon named "Hair and Company, Oasis Spa". This charming salon and spa is on White Street and the owner, Joann is a doll. When I walked in on that busy Saturday, there were clients everywhere I looked, but Joann took the time to meet with me and tell me all about what her salon offers. I even ended up booking this salon for an April 13, 2012 wedding held at The Oyster Point Hotel....blog and photos to come soon!

I also met with Milena Melone, an aesthetician who has her own little "oasis" in the back part of the salon. Whether you need a facial, foot reflexology, photon therapy or anything in between, she is the woman you want to see. If you're getting married in the Red Bank area, consider making this salon your one stop shop for feeling beautiful and relaxed. Check out their website here: www.hairandcompanyredbank.com or give them a call at 732-747-6983.

Of course, no wedding is complete without beautiful flowers. For something other than the "been there, done that", swing through Flowers on Front, easily accessible on Front Street. This quaint little shop has everything you need to make your day extra special. Just tell Tina everything you envision and watch her work some magic! Their website is www.flowersonfront.com.

The number one regret brides have is not having a videographer at their wedding day. Truth be told, I didn't have one, and it still is my biggest regret. I'll never get to see those written vows, or our choreographed first dance...all I have is the memories. I wish I had known about Joe Minnella and hired him to put together something creative! On my walk, I saw how interesting his work was; not just the average point and shoot, but something that flowed and would be beautiful to watch time and time again. He truly is a cinematographer! Don't just take my word, check out his website here: www.joecinema.com.

That concludes this year's Red Bank Wedding Walk. Like I said in the first part of this blog, if I were a bride with nothing planned, it would've all been done at the end of the walk! Amazing vendors, amazing people and an amazing time. Both venues, Molly Pitcher and Oyster Point would be dream locations to be married at. So ladies, get thee to Red Bank and get planning! Tell them Danielle from Golden Wedding Planners sent you!

Red Bank Wedding Walk (Part 1)

Walk with me, talk with me...

On March 24, 2011, I took a trip down to Red Bank, New Jersey, which is one of my favorite places to visit. They hosted an event called "Wedding Walk" where vendors from the area displayed their talents and were available to talk to throughout the day. At the end of the walk there was a bash at The Oyster Point (http://www.theoysterpointhotel.com/) to mingle and have a drawing for various prizes. It was basically a wedding expo where brides and grooms could see the vendors at their places of business instead of in front of a table. All of the businesses were located either in Red Bank or nearby Shrewsbury and if I was a bride with nothing planned, my entire wedding would've been planned in one day.

First stop was the check-in point at The Molly Pitcher Inn (http://www.themollypitcher.com/) where I was greeted by Eric Kent of NJ Wedding (http://www.njwedding.com/). Couples, friends and the like got to sign in and receive a map of the area where they would be able to meet with vendors and get their "passport" stamped. A gorgeous buffet breakfast was set out in one of the ballrooms and once you were finished, it was off to the walk!

Guests had a few options available to them: walk, take a trolley or take the shuttle. It was such a beautiful day out, that I walked most of the way. When I didn't, I took the shuttle which was provided by Arrow Limos (http://www.arrowlimo.com/) and it stopped at various places along the route, always bringing you back to The Molly Pitcher.

You might wonder why I went to this event. I'm not a bride (already married, thank you) and I'm a wedding planner that doesn't have a storefront in Red Bank. Well, while many of our brides are local to Bergen County, more and more brides want to get married "down the shore" in Jersey. Our next wedding (April 13th) is taking place at The Oyster Point, and what a better time to visit the venue and get to know some of the local vendors. With more and more brides contacting us about getting married in this area, we thought it would best to introduce ourselves to the local businesses.

My first stop was CLB Photography (http://www.clbphoto.com/) where I met Suzanne Lo Bue, a talented photographer with an amazing portfolio. Suzanne and her husband Chris have been in business for quite awhile, and they boast "Romantic 2 Ridiculous" weddings. Suzanne told me that the bride that books with them is typically looking for something different and not the typical portraits that are being taken. Many of our brides are looking for just that, so we look forward to recommending their services very soon!

Next up in the same building was "Sounds to Go" a DJ Entertainment group that kept the room filled with fun music. They were a great crew and we urge you to check out their website (http://www.soundstogodjs.com/) for all of your musical needs. We work with some stellar DJs, and we're picky about vendors we choose to partner with, but we look forward to working with them on future weddings. If you're looking for the fun element at your wedding, along with a DJ that provides lighting, then check this company out and let them know we sent you!

The walk continues in our next blog where we visit an amazing dress shop, smell some beautiful flowers and even get our hair did! Stay tuned....

The Maggie Sottero Obsession

Our obsession with Maggie Sottero is out of control.

Recently, I was browing through some wedding gown vendors in NJ, and with each website, I looked at what designers they carried. This blog, like all others, is strictly opinion based, but Maggie Sottero has got to be one of the best designers of wedding gowns...ever.

A few months ago I wrote a blog about finding the right wedding gown for your shape. Mermaids aren't for everyone, and neither are ballgowns. Sadly, if you're in love with a certain designer and they only specialize in strapless satin trumpet dresses, then you might be looking elsewhere.

Please take a minute to fall in love with Maggie.

This designer has the dress for everyone. Literally, for everyone. Whether you need a simple drop waist with no embellishment, or a full on strapless ballgown with dozens of pickups, you really can't go wrong. In fact, if I were going to get married all over again, as happy as I was with my gown (Vineyard Collection from Priscilla of Boston) I would check out Maggie's gowns.

There are collections that simply won't include non-strapless, but not every girl can carry that. This one didn't.... But Maggie has gowns for those of us that need a little "pick me up" in the front, and straps that can be anything from simple to decked out all the way.

I would absoutely recommend visiting a bridal salon that has Maggie Sottero as a designer. Even if you only tried on her dresses, the style she designs ranges from simple to elegant to over the top to princess to whatever you can think of and beyond.

Don't believe us? Visit her website to see that the proof is in the pudding:

http://www.maggiesottero.com/collection.aspx?line=m

and let us know which one you end up buying for the big day!

Another Wedding, Another Hall...

Your wedding is all about the personal style of you and your partner. But so many weddings look the same! There are ideas that have been done, colors that have been seen, and if you're starting to think that you need to wear something other than white to make your wedding stand out, then this blog entry is for you!

There are some simple ways to make your special day stand out. The key is to keep your focus and do one thing at a time. Look at the big parts of your wedding: vows, music, food and invitations to showcase your style.

First and foremost, write your own vows. Of course traditional vows are romantic and beautiful, but this is the only chance to verbally express to your mate how you feel. A wedding is about the coming together of two hearts, but too often it becomes all about the show. No matter what your budget, you can afford your own vows because they are free! Whether you're inspired by poetry, lyrics or movie quotes, find a way to make your words special. Maybe you still have that first sweet card that was written to you from your soon to be spouse. Use those words and tell your love how much they mean to you.

The music you play will set the tone for the entire reception. Don't just limit yourself to one type of music! Mix it up so that everyone will get a spin around the dance floor. Music shouldn't just be confined to the reception either, when there should be music during the ceremony and cocktail hour as well. Whether it's a band or a DJ, or a string quartet or a barbershop quartet, let the music reflect your life as a couple. Take the time to work on a playlist and even the order of the music. Invite friends to sing (if they can...seriously, bad singers have no place at a wedding, ever) during the ceremony or at the reception...or the after-party!

Your food choices say a lot about you. If you're a seafood lover, bring on the raw bar. Celebrating your Southern Italian heritage, then pasta with different sauces will do the trick! Just don't forget to have a wide variety. Just because you don't eat meat, doesn't mean your guests don't. It's not nice to let your guests starve, so make sure that everyone is happy.

The first entrance into a wedding is the save the date and invitation. It sets the tone and sits on your guests' fridge for the months leading up to the big day. You can use magnets, paper, cloth or wood, just make sure it ties into your whole theme. Taking engagement photos? Then put those on the save the dates! There are numerous websites where you can simply point and click and ship your invites. My advice? If you're overwhelmed, don't just "pick anything". Bookmark some of your favorites and come back to it on another day when you're relaxed and have a clear head.

No matter your budget, with a little time and effort you can make your personal style shine through your special day! For more tips and ideas, contact us at danielle@goldenweddingplanners.com and let us know how we can help!

Erin Go....Get Married!

This weekend is going to be warm and sunny in the NYC-NJ area and it's also St. Patrick's Day Weekend! Whether you're planning to pop the question, or get married, there are so many things to consider!

If you're not engaged yet, consider using the Luck of the Irish to help you out. Guide your better half to a pot of gold where you can hide the ring. All it takes is a pot from Home Depot spray painted gold and voila! Pick up some shamrocks at their Garden Center to add into the pot and place the ring inside the greens! When she says yes, find a way to incorporate that pot into your wedding day...maybe even as a centerpiece for your sweetheart table!

Getting married on the holiday? No need to have a green explosion when there are way to celebrate...tastefully.

Wildflowers are perfect to use at your wedding and are very popular for Irish ceremonies. You could use them in something simple like your bouquet, or hang them from the chairs in baskets during the ceremony. If you want a more elegant look, consider using calla lillies!

Favors are something that every couple leaves until the end to figure out, but your guests will always talk about them. Why not give your guests some good luck with a rabbits foot? For the true Irish fans, consider giving small bottles of Irish whiskey and have the labels say your names and wedding date on them.

I'm a huge fan of mason jars, and I'd love to see an Irish wedding use some green ones to showcase their flowers. If you really want to get creative, buy enough to make a rainbow down the aisle!

If you're able to bring in your own caterer, keep with Irish tradition and offer fare like corned beef and cabbage. That said, don't just offer that as some people might not want it. Make sure you have a wide variety of food for your guests to choose from.

It's all about luck and good fortune! However you choose to celebrate, whether with a proposal or a wedding, enjoy it! Happy St. Patrick's Day!